Ts post op sex dating
He was an amateur MMA fighter, came from the hood — apparently a former gang member, as I learned later. We’re the dirty little secrets who get calls only after hours.
” I was convinced that I was so excited about the coming reality of waking up to a brighter future that the anesthesia wouldn’t work.Last year was a hectic one, recovering from gender confirmation surgery (while writing a show about it), running a theatre company, getting on the scene as a trans actress…So much of my energy was spent working on and talking about becoming a woman in the world that I spent very little time actually being one.That didn’t stop the intense expression of confusion that spread across his face.“So you’re a man? “Do you know how lucky you are that I’m not, like, crazy?Because I know plenty of guys who would really do some shit to you.”“No, I’m a woman, a transgender woman,” I answered, trying to make him understand. His entire view of me had changed and there was no going back. He had just moved to Atlanta from Chicago and had this whole stereotypical macho thing about him.
We’d just met, so I can only imagine the infinite possibilities swirling in his head.
Men are not interested in dating post-op transsexuals. Now when I go online, I get more messages of interest from men than I ever got as a pre-op.
Almost universally, the response was, "Yes, I am aware you're post-op, and I find that attractive." At that point, because of what I had been told over the past five years, I wanted to know why they are interested in post-ops.
Topping isn’t really my thing, but I had a narrow window of opportunity to enjoy being a commodity fetish and I wanted to make the most of it.
Feeling sexy and desired just by being honest about myself was really gratifying, especially after hating my body for so many years.
But it did and when I woke up, my eyes immediately filled up with tears.