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“There isn't a huge difference among European countries, although the cliché is that northern countries are more pragmatic and the southern countries more romantic,” Hegmann said.That's not to say that there aren't a few intercultural differences.
They have a heart, they can love deeply and intense, they are loyal and they do everything they possibly can to make their loved ones happy. I am lucky, I get to have arguments with W in my own language, sort of, because sometimes he doesn’t know the Portuguese word for what he wants to say, or I don’t remember the Portuguese word at the moment and just say it in German. We have our own language, a crazy mix of German, Portuguese and English, but what matters is that we always find a way to understand the other. Why call a professional if you already have your German husband?Dating in itself is a very personal and sophisticated matter. According to Lynne P., an American living in Germany, ” …if there’s any genuine connection between two people, it’ll survive whatever differences may arise in the early stages of dating, and if those differences seem too overwhelming and/or the relationship doesn’t survive for other reasons, trying to make too many adaptations in the early stages is NOT going to help!Therefore, we would like to pay special attention to German men.Speaking about German men, we first of all think of such qualities as punctuality, decency, respectable appearance and … Yeah, dear ladies, it’s absolutely true that German men are really romantic.A 2008 survey of European singles for dating website Parship found that Germans tended to be the most experienced with serious relationships, uninterested in marriage and pessimistic about finding a new partner soon. If what you're doing isn't working, change it!
“If you're looking for love for three or four years, or you never had a relationship lasting longer than six months, then probably you're doing something – maybe not wrong, but maybe not right for you,” Hegmann says.
“It's all about finding structures and new ways to break those barriers.” One of the things you might be doing wrong is simply not talking to the people you'd like to get to know.
“Most singles say, I'm single because I'm too shy and waiting for the other side to make the first move,” Hegmann said. They'll be grateful and honour the fact that you took a risk.” In the study, 36 percent of German men said that shyness had had a role in keeping them single – much higher than the EU average of 27 percent. Don't worry about technology stealing your love away “Dating is getting a bit different now because we are online 24/7,” Hegmann said.
Germans are typically perfectionists and seem to expect this from everyone they come in contact with.
Further, if you do something wrong or not by their standards they normally have no problem ridiculing you and telling you what an idiot you are.
If 10 years ago someone had told me that I would be married to a German, I would laugh. Well, life is REALLY full of surprises, not only I married a German who speaks German, but one that also speaks my language too, Portuguese. Yes, our 3-year wedding anniversary is tomorrow, and while this post is being published, we are celebrating this day in Paris.