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Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.I was just thinking that most of my male friends over 30 seem to be with foreign women most of who are younger...
Polish, Chinese, Italian, Spanish, Swedish, Indian, who speak English with a foreign accent?These are not the kind of thing you learn in your language textbooks.However, there are many people who are successful at dating in Japan.It is commonly believed that dating in Japan is easy for non-Asian (particularly white) men and hard for women.I came across a blog post by zoomingjapn, a German girl living in Japan, writing about dating in Japan as a foreigner. She writes, ‘It is comparably easy for a western foreign man to find a Japanese woman or to have a nice relationship here in Japan’, but ‘it is extremely tough to find a date as a foreign woman here in Japan.’ Her story is interesting in itself but the most interesting part of the article is the huge number of comments gets – 162 comments (or about 30,000 words! A lot of people who commented actually disagree with her.In particular, non-Japanese guys tend to disagree because they don’t think it’s easy to date Japanese girls. Overall, does it mean that it’s hard to date Japanese people regardless of your gender? If you are in a foreign country with a completely different culture, it is logical that you might have a hard time dating.
Dating often involves a lot of hidden rules and non-verbal cues.
She just knows that the way to a guy’s heart is to shut up and let him make the moves.
The writer says that compared to Western guys, the average Japanese man is far shyer, so you’ll have to adjust your own “shyness level” to match his.
Japanese people show their feelings through actions rather than words.
Whereas in many Western countries it wouldn’t be shocking for a girl to come out and say “I like you” straight to a guy’s face, in Japan this is still considered rather unconventional.
On the forums of a Japanese culture site aimed at foreigners there were plenty of threads with titles such as “Are Japanese guys not interested in white girls? ” These girls were all wanting to discuss how to make themselves appealing to Japanese men, and thankfully they were treated to a handful of great tips for how to do just that from one especially worldly-wise love expert. Clear, white skin is the essence of beauty in Japan; if you’ve ever been to a beauty counter in Japan you’ll have seen the amount of potions and lotions promising whiter, brighter skin. According to one girl’s analysis, white skin is associated with purity, innocence and youth. Here’s just a few adjectives that Madame Riri takes careful note of: “gracious, respectful, modest, slightly demure, innocent, friendly, approachable, sensitive.” Apparently the most important attribute, however, is shyness.