by Jay Julio Women are extremely smart in the dating world. That's why you MUST know what these questions are — and the motivations behind them IF you not only want to succeed with women, but also not fall victim to their personal agendas. That's why they have these standard questions they ask men as soon as they get the chance.They tend to have a set of dating questions they'll ask every man they begin seeing. These dating questions allow a woman to save time by getting the information about you she needs quickly... for the purpose of these questions is to figure out whether you can give a woman the benefits she's looking for — and which specific ones.
Find out whether this man wants something serious and believes in a romantically charged equal partnership that leads towards marriage, or if he thinks the woman should do all the work as he sits back and cheats. Though being aware of the specific dating questions can definitely help you identify what a woman's priorities may be, it isn't nearly as important as understanding the intentions beneath them.Women have two personal reasons for getting together with men: the external benefits and the internal benefits they receive. Really, it's the feelings underneath the benefits that women are ultimately after.I was having brunch with some girlfriends the other day, and we got on the subject of first dates. It's a generic question that breeds generic answers, and doesn’t really give you additional insight into who I am.While we all had different experiences, there was one thing we all agreed on: There are a few questions we are absolutely of hearing from guys on a first date. Asking me what I “do for fun” kind of makes me feel like I’m on an interview, not a date.Rather than treating questions as a first date script, weave them seamlessly into conversation, by asking, listening, and following up with new topics and further questions.
Before you know it, you’ll be using questions to inspire a natural exchange.
And just like these two general motives, men also fall into one of two general categories: either providers or lovers.
What you'll discover is that providers offer external benefits, while lovers provide internal benefits. Now, here's the real secret to dealing with women, starting from the moment you get a woman asking you these questions...
So, what makes for a great question, as opposed to a dull back-and-forth? More important than the specifics of the question is your intention in asking it.
If you don't truly care about the answer, then any question will fall flat. Avoiding yes or no questions creates organic conversation, and allows you and your date to really get to know each other.
He might be unemployed, but he could be going to college for his degree.7. So, we can obviously see why this might be an important question. If you could have dinner with a famous person, who would it be? Hey, he could secretly dream of being a magician and has the ability to perform some wild tricks, or maybe he can walk on his hands. Just ask it casually something during the conversation.