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- Aditi [View Message] Adopting a child needs lot of legal documents as our government has become strict in this matter, please make sure you consult with some government official as they can guide you properly in this matter and will not misguide you as i am sure about it....- Anushree [View Message] Hey dear this is really good to see that you are planing to adopt a child, i should not ask openly but are you planing to adopt a girl child?

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“People are either blind dating or on the way to blind dating” is a popular saying, so dating shows have become popular but one stands out like a tall poppy in a field.After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.Any American woman who's beautiful, has a good career and a stable job would never go for an Indian man, simply because that kind of a woman already has a lot of White men chasing after her, and women are extremely conscious about what the society thinks about their man, like what their friends circle think about her boy friend, what her other attractive girl friends think as attractive, what the society defines as attractive, etc etc.More importantly, while I personally believe that a woman’s worth shouldn’t be connected to the number of guys who fantasize about her at night, this sudden change in how I was perceived by others spoke volumes to me about racial preferences and standards of beauty in Singapore.The dark skin and curly hair that I was ridiculed for in Singapore were admired and complimented for the first time in my life.The surprised looks by strangers were one thing, but the harsh comments made to me by fellow Indians, especially men, implying that I had somehow betrayed Indian men as a collective, came as quite a shock to me.

I have been trying to grapple with this response and believe it all boils down, as do most issues, to racism and sexism.

I wanted to sink into the floor when my teacher in Secondary School declared that she, a Chinese woman, would never date an Indian man.

So you can imagine my genuine surprise when I flew to Europe for a university exchange programme and started to be on the receiving end of a fair amount of male attention.

Transgender talk-show host dubbed Chinese Oprah, Jin Xing, is the MC of hugely popular reality TV show “Chinese Dating” because of its aggressive and unique style with young people bringing their parents and relatives on the stage to participate in the selection of their date.

Critics have labeled it sexist and a step backward similar to the outdated custom of an arranged marriage, but the show partly reflects today’s Chinese marriage ecosystem where “leftovers” and their parents hit the panic buttons when festive events must be attended such as family gatherings during Lunar New Year, the Lantern Festival or Chinese Valentine’s Day (February 11).

Just the way things are, life's not fair as you know, and it's better to accept it than deny it. While I'll be the first to admit I'm not generally attracted to guys from India, I have an Indian doctor whom I'd consider quite the cream of the crop...