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But TBH, I didn’t exactly do the hard work of breaking up with him, either. It’s funny: As the median age of first marriage creeps higher and higher (implying, of course, more years or even decades of dating people with whom you’ll eventually split), we all get plenty of practice at ending relationships.I hung around and watched him disappear, then came back and demanded the last word with a little flash of sass. And yet, if the endless articles about ghosting and millennial dating habits are true (each of these is its own article — ugh how awful), we’re worse at it than ever.

This is because there's no real closure, and as a result, the person who gets ghosted is left wondering what they did wrong for much longer than they would be if they'd just been broken up with straight-up.Image source:i Stock Controversial opinion, I know, but I'm a pretty ardent supporter of executing a breakup vis-à-vis text message--under the right circumstances, of course.If it's a very, very casual thing, a simple text is really all that you need to do.“I’m judging by your radio silence that you don’t want to continue hanging out,” it read.“That's fine, but I wish you would've forgone the slow fade and just told me, especially after a couple of months/sleeping together.It's a great way to avoid having an awkward discussion IRL while still, you know, letting your person know that you don't want to not-date them anymore.

Image source:i Stock This is true for any breakup, probably, but especially so for a not-dating situation.

In “official” relationships, a breakup hurts because a connection ends; it disappears from your life.

In “non-relationships,” it hurts because it never really begins.

It’s an old platitude, but it’s true: Breaking up is hard to do. Breaking up with someone you aren’t even really dating, technically. Particularly if you want to end things–after all, breaking up is, by most people’s definition, the act of ending a relationship.

In today’s weird, disjointed, dating/hookup/whatever culture, it’s increasingly common to find yourself in some kind of nebulous non-relationship, whether it’s a friends with benefits situation or a “just hooking up and we don’t want to talk about what’s really happening” kind of deal. How can you break up with someone if you aren’t even officially dating them?

Lack of trust and a feeling of possessing or being possessed. (This applies also for sex addiction, and when a couple is united only by their passion for each other, love can’t grow.